Flattering50: Good-bye, Scarf. Hello, Beaded Necklace!

Monday, February 21, 2011

Good-bye, Scarf. Hello, Beaded Necklace!

This winter, I wore more scarves—indoors and out—than ever before. I doubled my scarf collection and had a blast with colors, weaves and different knots. Some spring 2011 collections are showing a scarf—long, thin and in a neutral color—as an accessory for a simple neutral color sheath or tunic over matching trousers, channeling a 1920s flapper look. The long, summer scarf is a flattering choice for women over 50. It’s feminine and a quick fix for little neck flaws. Personally, however, I’m ready for a change.

I’ve been admiring necklaces with layers of beads for spring 2011. I think they’re a great choice for women over 50 for one simple reason: They aren’t “big jewelry.” If you’ve read my ramblings in the past, you know I hate big jewelry on older women. When older women wear jewelry with big chains and stones, it’s as if they are announcing to the world: “Please look at my big, ridiculous, masculine jewelry, instead of my old lady flaws!” What an awful image to project! By contrast, layers of beads are very feminine, softening the harsh realities of aging. Take for instance, the Facetted Amethyst Beads for $139 from Cashmere Boutique. In my mind, the difference between an older woman wearing a delicate, feminine necklace like that or a necklace with big baubles is like the difference between wearing a smile or a scowl. Big difference, right? Below is a sample of other beaded necklaces that are fun and flattering for women over 50.

FROM THE BEALLS COMPANY...

Alfred Dunner® Cosmopolitan Necklace Sweater for $54

FROM MICHAEL STARS...
I don't have an image for Michael Stars 3 Strand African Beads, but it's worth taking a peek at. Each strand is different, but complements the other two. It's available for $168.

MORE FROM CASHMERE BOUTIQUE...
Cashmere Boutique is having a sale right now. For example, the Amethyst Necklace at the top of the post is currently reduced from $139 to $79.40. To see the sale prices as well as more beaded designs, click on the photos or item name.